What You Need to Know
About Clinical Depression
by Susan Stiles, M.S.W.
"I dont know whats wrong with
me." a woman confided to me recently, "Im just not my old self. It seems
like Im always sad and crying for no reason. Most days I dont want to get out
of bed. I just dont understand it. The other day at the supermarket I just "froze
up", I stopped what I was doing and just started to cry."
As I listened to her, I couldt help think
that she was describing depression, a treatable illness that afflicts over 19
million people in the U.S. each year. If you are a ministry leader, it is important for
you to understand the signs of depression, how it might affect those suffering from it,
and ways that depression can be treated.
Symptoms
There are many different causes for depression (such
as post-partum, Seasonal Affective Disorder and others) however, there are some common
symptoms that people experience. According to the Diagnostic and Statistical Model
(DSM-IV), a manual used by clinicians and healthcare professionals, a person struggling
with depression might experience:
- Sleeping problems such as insomnia or the desire
to sleep all the time.
- Appetite problems such as a loss of appetite or
major weight gain.
- Lack of energy such as apathy, lethargy, or a lack
of interest in anything.
- Feelings of worthlessness, hopelessness, and/or
terrible guilt.
- Difficulty concentrating, or unusual
indecisiveness.
- Suicidal thoughts, or suicide attempts
What to Do About it
If you or someone you know is struggling with depression there are several things Id
encourage you to do:
One of the first things is consult a physician.
There are a number of anti-depressant medications that a physician might prescribe to
treat the depression.
Secondly, I'd encourage you to remember that
depression is an illness; it is not a reflection on a person's character, who
their spouse is, if they have sinned, etc.
Third, I'd encourage you to look for caring
people who are willing to listen, a Christian small group, support and recovery group
or Bible Study might be one such place. Depression affects not only those that have the
illness but spouses, children, parents and friends. Finding a support group or building a
network of concerned friends can really help as others join to support you in this
difficult issue.
My final piece of advice would be to not give
up hope. The Bible is full of passages that are filled with hope, describing the love
and mercy of God, here are a few :
- "The Lord is my strength and my song"
(Exodus 15:2)
- "Have I not commanded you? Be strong and
courageous. Do not be terrified; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with
you wherever you go." (Joshua 1:9)
- "The Lord is compassionate and gracious, slow
to anger, abounding in love." (Psalm 103:8)
Just because a person has faith in God does not
necessarily mean a person's struggle with depression will necessarily go away. However,
God's ever-present love can provide strength and hope to those in need.
What about Suicidal
Comments?
Finally, Id like to address an issue of great importance, which does not apply to
all who suffer from depression. Some people struggling with depression may have suicidal
thoughts or comments.
It is essential to call authorities if
you or someone you know is discussing suicide. There are trained healthcare professionals
that can help. If you are a leader in a church, such as a small group leader, you need to
inform your pastor if someone is suicidal. Even though confidentiality is highly valued in
Christian small groups, your pastor still needs to be informed about this life or death
issue.
Note: Information provided on this page is for informational purposes
only and is not a substitute for professional medical advice. Only your healthcare
provider should diagnose your healthcare problems and prescribe treatment. |